Transition Survey

Transition Survey

Dear Friends,

As we rush ever nearer towards the transition to our new building and campus there are many, many things to consider in regard to how we operate and move forward.  Over the last few years, we have steadily reduced the amount of space we occupy and that has affected what we have been able to do and how we have had to do those things.  Very soon, the opposite will be true.  We will soon experience exponential growth in our available space.  That is very exciting because it opens up possibilities to do new things and old things in new (hopefully better) ways. 

Paul, Cameron and I have spent hours and hours thinking about, discussing and readying ourselves and the church to step into this fast-approaching reality.  We are calling and attending meetings, reading studies, considering our personality as a body and praying that our Lord will guide us in every step we take.  Our desire is not to do things the way we like them or necessarily the easiest way.  We want to make decisions and changes that will lead us to operate in the “best” way, in a way that is most effective to the salvation of the lost and to growth in God’s Kingdom.  I hope that you join us in that desire.

One of the items that we have been tossing around for months now is what is the best way to organize our Sunday morning format now that we will have options for doing things differently.  The formats we have been prayerfully considering are; 1) Current Format – Worship, Fellowship, Life Groups, 2) Traditional Format – Life Groups, Fellowship, Worship, and 3) Non-Traditional Format – Worship, Fellowship with Life Groups whenever and wherever the individual group chooses to meet.

You may recall that before I came to Frederica, Pastor Jim Staubes led this church to flip its worship and Sunday school times for the summer of 2019.  The desire was to facilitate an increase in class attendance.  The experiment worked and our attendance in Sunday school, what we now call Life Groups, increased by 20%.  The week I started as your full-time pastor you held a meeting and voted to continue holding worship first followed by a time of fellowship and then Sunday school and Life Groups.  Covid, of course, caused us all kinds of logistical issues and those issues were further magnified as we sold portions of our building and constricted our current operational space.  Now that we are moving to a larger space new considerations need to be made.

I have been reading at lot lately on the subjects of church growth and operation.  A few things have been made abundantly clear to me.  First, we shouldn’t allow our traditions and personal comforts to create stumbling blocks to those whom the Lord is drawing to Himself.  In other words, we don’t want to place obstacles before people, making it difficult or inconvenient to hear the saving gospel of Jesus.  Some of those obstacles could be language, dress, location, worship style and format.  Second, our outreach focus must be on those who do not already believe the way we do.  It’s absolutely acceptable to invite your Christian family, friends and neighbors to church but we must be diligent to seek and to save the lost just as Jesus did.  Finally, we must prioritize our Children’s ministry.  This would include our youth and young families.  This does not, on any level, mean we forget or marginalize our other ministries or our senior adults.  In fact, senior adult and men’s ministries are areas we also want to expand.  However, reaching children with the gospel is vital to their eternity and attracting young families to the church is vital to our long-term growth and survival.  Obviously, there are many other factors that affect church growth as well.

In all honesty, over the past few months, I have shifted from one service format option to another then to another.  Again, it cannot be about my personal preference.  It must be about what is best to reach the lost and advance the Kingdom.  At the end of this letter, there will be a link to a survey that will give you the opportunity to share your prayerful thoughts and to weigh in on this discussion.  First, however, let me give you some things to consider.

First, relationships are essential to convincing guests to return.  To help foster those relationships we want to reintroduce a fellowship time during our Sunday morning format.  If our focus is on our guests and creating relationships then it doesn’t really make sense to have this fellowship time before we would expect guests to arrive which would happen if it were held twenty to thirty minutes prior to the main worship service.

Second, we have heard many times from guests with children of their desire for a children’s church.  Cameron and the Children’s Ministry team have determined that this is a program that should be integrated into our Sunday morning format.  The idea is that our children (K-3rd) will stay in the main worship service until just before preaching.  Then they will be escorted to the children’s area for a time of singing, Bible storying and some fun.  This idea flows best if it can then tie in and lead right into their Sunday School time.  It can be done by having Sunday School first, then main worship then Children’s Church but that would mean additional, different curriculum and additional workers for the separate time.

Third, safety and security are always concerns for parents and children. For that reason, families will be required to check in and check out their children into the nursery and other children’s activities. Our current service time format supports this by allowing parents to check their children in and out only once on a Sunday morning.  A traditional format would require children to be checked in, then picked up for fellowship/worship then picked up again after worship.  This would also require families who arrive last minute for worship only to check their children in prior to children’s church.

Fourth, in regards to church growth, the importance of Sunday school and life groups cannot be overstated.  Our experiment with our current format did work and attendance did increase.  It also made it easier to entice guests to stay for Bible study thus strengthening their connection to us and those important relationships.  Returning to a traditional format or moving to a non-traditional format de-emphasizes Bible study groups and makes them easier to skip.

Finally, according to Lifeway Research and Thom Rainier, churches that maintain a traditional eleven o’clock worship service are now in the minority.  This is important to me because I felt that having non-traditional times could be a possible obstacle to guests.  However, research tells us that very few people visit a new church without first visiting their web site and checking their times.  Since traditional times are no longer the norm, the expectation is no longer an obstacle. 

The bottom line is that no matter what we decide there will be some of us who disagree with the decision.  I for one, however, am committed to accept whatever decision is made and work to maintain unity in our body and use our new resources to the glory and multiplication of God’s Kingdom.  I hope that you will join me in that pledge and be joyful with our new opportunities in our new home!

Only by Grace,

Pastor Mike

Click HERE to go to the survey.

 



Something

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Something

 

This last month has been a little crazy. I got Covid and had to endure that as well as week or more regaining my strength. Then, I’ve had writer’s block these past two weeks following my recovery. I can’t really say that it is Covid Brain because I’ve been able to think and do other things, but writing this is different. I’ve started three or four different times only to get a paragraph or two in length before I deleted everything and started over. I’ve had several experiences that I think would be good for a “’REED’ This” only to find out when writing them they don’t go anywhere. And I don’t want to just give a bunch of hodge-podge information that doesn’t lead to some kind of conclusion or grand spiritual thought. Yesterday was my granddaughter’s second birthday. Today is the birthday of a great friend. Tomorrow is the birthday of a former pastor I served with that has served as mentor to me. You’d think I could write something pertaining to at least one of them, especially my precious granddaughter. For some reason, nothing is coming to me. A spark of inspiration just isn’t there to ignite the fire. Why? I wish I knew.

 

There are a lot of things on my mind, I guess, and actually for all of us. This is a big transition time in our church. We are getting ready to relocate, to start afresh and anew in a new building that has been prayed for by all of us. Some have been praying for this for over twenty years. We can see the light at the end of the tunnel as it seems to be getting so close and we are so ready to be there. One thing some are realizing is when we get there, it certainly won’t be a time to sit down and relax. On the contrary, I believe we will all have opportunity to get a little busier. But, it will be for the better because it will be for the Lord.

 

Well, this has gone on a little longer than expected and about as far as most the other ones have gone that were ultimately deleted. However, I believe I’ll go ahead and keep these ramblings and send them on to you. Maybe you’ve gotten something out of them.

 

What I wanted to get around to saying with all of this is – be sure and read Pastor Mike’s letter. It’s important and has much more substance than this.

 

“Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account. Do this so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no benefit to you.”  Hebrews 13:17 NIV

 

Bro. Paul Reed

 

Tuesday, February 1, 2022

 



Deacons

Deacons

Dear Friends,

Much to my embarrassment I completely forgot last summer to request deacon nominations for this coming year.  Honestly, I thought I had done it.  It seems like only yesterday that I was pouring over the list of nominees.  Please forgive this oversight and send in your nominations before the end of Sunday, January 30.  You may do that electronically by clicking on the link in this newsletter or you may drop them in the box provided this Sunday morning.

As your think about who to nominate, please consider the following:

 FrBC Deacon Qualifications:

FrBC Church Constitution:

  • Professing, baptized believer for at least 5 years
  • 25 years or Older
  • An active church member for at least 1 year (12 calendar months)
  • Honorable, true servants of God who encourage unity
  • Conform in character and practice to 1 Tim 3:8-13, Acts 6:1-6

1 Tim. 3:8-13:

  • Male
  • Well Respected
  • Known for Integrity and Honesty
  • Not a lover of money
  • Not heavy drinkers
  • Committed to the gospel of Jesus Christ (born-again)
  • Have a clear conscience (through confession and forgiveness of sins)
  • Their wives should be well respected, not slanderers (gossips) exhibiting self-control and faithfulness in all they do.
  • Faithful to one wife
  • Manages his children and household well.

Acts 6:1-7:

  • Servant
  • Leader
  • Protector of the pastor’s time and ministry
  • Teacher
  • Evangelist
  • Bold witness

 

 

 

Additional Scriptural Considerations:

Titus 3:

  • Subject to rulers and authorities (Law abiding)
  • Obedient
  • Devoted to doing good
  • Not a slanderer / gossip (honest)
  • Peaceful, Considerate and Humble (not argumentative)
  • Willing and able to confront sin in the congregation

Acts 20:17-21

  • Servant Attitude
  • Transparent Integrity
  • Godly Character
  • Faithful Biblical Teacher

Other Logical Considerations:

  • Hold fast to the Truth and Reliability of God’s Word above all
  • Regular Attenders (as much as possible) to FrBC services and events
  • Financial supporters of FrBC in accordance with Biblical mandate
  • Promoters and supporters of FrBC, its pastor and ministries
  • A unifier not a divider
  • Reliable

These are the qualities that I will be considering as I move through the list of nominations that you, the church body, provide.  I trust that you will make your nominations carefully and prayerfully.

Again, I am sorry that this important operation in our church life was missed.  I’ve already put it on my calendar for next year!  Thank you for taking the time to consider the men of our church and to nominate those whom you feel will faithfully fulfil the office of deacon.

Only by Grace!

Pastor Mike

 



Overwhelmed

Overwhelmed

 

This past weekend I finally had time to do some work around the house. But the first thing I wanted to tackle was cleaning out my truck. It had been some time since I had done it, so it was needed. I just hadn’t realized how badly it was overdue. I have an extended cab with four doors, but the back ones are really only half-size. It’s amazing all the things that will accumulate in there. There is a back seat, but with everything in the seats and on the floorboard, there was no way someone could actually sit there. So, I began cleaning it out. I had a trash bag with me knowing I would need it. I began filling it with empty cups that had held my half-n-half teas to-go from various restaurants. Then, I began crushing empty water bottles and putting them into the bag. I was reaching underneath the seats, pulling out candy wrappers, gas receipts, old golf score cards, and various other trash items and putting them into the bag. I came across all kinds of papers and envelopes with some of them dating back several years. I then began going through the different objects that I kept in there such as umbrellas, jackets, hats, work gloves, moving blankets, bug spray, my metal detector, books, CDs, bowling pins, pieces of wood, clam shells, clamps, and ratchet straps. Finally, I had removed all the trash and everything else out of the cab. Then I carefully put only the things I really needed to keep in the truck back in an orderly fashion. All the other stuff, I put in the garage or wherever it needed to go in the house. I put at least twenty or more CDs back with my stereo downstairs. And I threw away two umbrellas that had holes in them along with one large completely stuffed bag of trash. I thought to myself, “How was I carrying so much stuff around in my truck?”

 

It’s amazing how trash and stuff can accumulate around us. It starts with just a little mint wrapper or an empty water bottle that you just put in the back floorboard out of your way. A neat looking shell you picked up at the beach or a letter you forget to take in when you got home. We don’t think about it, but very quickly, a little here and there adds up to a lot. Finally, you look around one day and find yourself surrounded by trash and clutter.

 

That can happen in all areas of our lives, especially emotionally and spiritually. A little altercation occurs with someone, and we hold on to it and don’t let it go. Something happens politically and we keep going through it in our mind. We worry about what may happen with ourselves, a family member or friend and remain anxious, wondering if or when it will happen. Things continue to come upon us that concern us, and we just don’t know what to do with them, so we carry them around in our minds, not sure if we need to be concerned or if they really matter. All of this just weighs us down more and more. Our minds become clouded, and our strength seems to be zapped. We look around and don’t know what to do. We’re overwhelmed. 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you.” Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” God can clear all the clutter from our minds and lives. He is the only one who can truly give us peace emotionally and spiritually. His Holy Spirit guides us and gives us the ability to discern and understand what really matters. Even with all the turmoil and uncertainty that surrounds us, we don’t need to fear and worry. We have the peace of God. Isaiah 26:3-4 says, “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in You, all whose thoughts are fixed on You! Trust in the Lord always, for the Lord God is the eternal Rock.”

 

It may take some time for you to truly feel that overwhelming peace. It took me two hours to clean out my truck. And I didn’t even vacuum the carpet or clean the dashboard and windows. But it felt so good to be able to drive it knowing all the mess was no longer around me. Even if that peace is not immediately felt, know that God is there with you and rest in His promise. Trust in His Word.

 

Bro. Paul Reed

 

Tuesday, January 11, 2022

 



Anticipation

Anticipation

Dear Friends,

Do you remember the old Heinz ketchup commercial, “Anticipation?”  The ketchup was so slow coming out of the bottle, they had to create an entire marketing campaign to convince people that it was worth waiting for!  We, as a church, are in a period of anticipation as well while we anxiously await moving into our new campus.  It’s so exciting to think about all the things that we can and will do when we get there.  Of course, it seems like the closer we get, the harder it is to wait! 

The problems come when we start to push, to try and speed things along.  We want to make things happen but they’re really not ready to happen yet.  We, as a body, believe that God has called us to make this titanic effort and to build a new home for FrBC.  It’s natural to want to be in that new home sooner rather than later.  However, since God is behind the effort, we need to trust God to bring it to its commencement in His time.

The first thing we need to understand about God’s timing is that it is perfect, just as all of God’s ways are perfect (Psalm 18:30). God’s timing is never early, and it’s never been late. In fact, from before our birth until the moment we take our last earthly breath, our sovereign God is accomplishing His divine purposes in our lifetimes. He is in complete control of everything and everyone from everlasting to everlasting. Nothing we do to hurry things up will affect His eternal plan which He set into motion before the foundation of the world.

The Apostle Paul tells us that patience is a spiritual fruit (Galatians 5:22), and Scripture makes it clear that God is pleased with us when we display this virtue: “Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for Him” (Psalm 37:7). “God is good to those who wait for Him” (Lamentations 3:25). Our patience often reveals the level of trust we have in God and His perfect timing. God operates according to His perfect schedule, not our imperfect one. Another interesting fact that the Bible shares with us is that patiently waiting on God’s timing can give us divine energy and strength: “But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31). “Wait on the LORD; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the LORD!” (Psalm 27:14).

When we question God’s timing, it is often because we are looking for deliverance from a difficult situation. The longer we stay in our current church home and the more that this space shrinks, the more difficult it gets to effectively operate the programs that we run here.  We can rest assured, however, that our heavenly Father knows exactly where we are and what we need at every moment. He either put us in this situation or is allowing us to be here, for His own perfect purposes. God’s Word tells us that all things – including these current cramped conditions – work out for the good of those who love God (Romans 8:28).

I encourage all of us to keep praying.  Pray for available workers and supplies.  Pray for generous, sacrificial giving to continue coming in to the building fund.  Pray that God will bless our patience as we continue to anticipate that day when we walk into our new home and lift praises and thanksgiving to Him.  Pray that God will use this period of waiting on His perfect timing to mold and shape us into the church that He will use to reach the lost all around us.

Only by Grace!

Pastor Mike



Did You Hear That?

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Did You Hear That?

 

A few nights ago, we had some stormy weather come through. There was some rain, but the wind is what really got my attention. I was awoken several times during the night. One time I heard the heavy rain hitting the roof and the water splashing to the ground as it gathers to one particular spot during storms. All the other times I was just hearing the wind. Well, not actually the wind, but the things it was affecting. I could hear the whooshing and swishing as it whipped through the tree limbs and leaves. I heard something on the back porch being blown around. What woke me up the most was hearing knocks and bumps and scratches on the sides of the house. That was telling me something I’ve known for a while that I’ve neglected – pruning. All the plants around my house are needing some serious pruning. I’ve seen it for a long time, but kept putting it off saying, “I think I’ll just go for a more natural look.” The only thing is, that natural look has gotten to a point where it just looks overgrown. Bushes that normally are only about five feet tall are above my second story roofline. Those plants are growing and look quite healthy, so I hate to cut on them. But I know, it’s not good to have the plants knocking and scratching up against the house. That can damage the paint or even the wood. A natural look is fine, as long as it is under control.

 

I was thinking about hearing those bumps and scratches, and I was reminded of something else. We all have times in our lives when we may get a little complacent in our routine or in the way things seem to be going. Our walk with the Lord is okay and we feel good. Then, we start hearing bumps, knocks, and even scratches. It may be a storm, or it may simply be the Holy Spirit trying to get our attention. Complacency is dangerous. We never need to think we have arrived at a place where we can be satisfied with where we are and what we have achieved. We are to always be growing in our faith and growing in our understanding of God and growing in our relationship with Him. We may have grown a lot in the past, but the more we know God, the more we realize we don’t know God. He is too great! But He wants us to grow closer to Him and learn more and know Him more and fellowship with Him more. Jesus said, “I Am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.” (John 15:1-2) That’s God working in our lives, shaping us into what He wants us to be so that we may be able to accomplish the great plans He has for us. We must be abiding in Him and growing in Him for Him to be able to do this. He won’t force Himself upon us, we must submit and allow Him.

 

Jesus speaks to Christians in Revelation 3:20 and says, “Behold I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and will dine with him, and he with Me.” We need to be listening. We need to hear His voice and be ready to let Him in and spend time with Him. We may even be at a point where we are asleep and God has to wake us up, but we don’t want to miss the opportunity to spend time with and grow closer to our Savior.

 

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Did you hear that?

Is Someone trying to get your attention?

 

Bro. Paul Reed

 

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

 



A Christmas Snow

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A Christmas Snow

 

When I was young, we always went to my grandparents in southern Oklahoma for Christmas. It was just a three-hour drive west from where we lived in Arkansas. It always seemed colder there because the wind was always blowing, and that time of year, it was always coming from the north. Granny and Daddy John’s house was an old rock house that was heated by a central floor furnace. That meant the living room was always a little too warm and the bedrooms were always a little too cool. But the den out back of the kitchen was just plain cold. Yet, with us twenty grandchildren buzzing around, we stayed plenty warm. I remember late one Christmas Eve it began to snow. We all looked out through the windows and watched it accumulate on the ground and measured it by how much was on the picnic table that was being covered outside the back door. Of course, we were already excited because Christmas was the next day, but now we knew there would be snow as well. As expected, it was difficult getting to sleep, but somehow, we finally did. The next morning was wonderful with all the excitement of opening our Christmas presents together with our cousins, as well as our anxiousness to play in the snow. When we finally went out, it was beautiful. Snowing all night had left thirteen inches on the ground! Now that was fun! It was hard to believe so much had accumulated, but it was snowing very heavily the previous night. Everything was covered with a thick coat of white.

 

Now, southern Oklahoma is not what you would call the prettiest area, especially in the winter. Not meaning to offend, but I could describe it as just being ugly. Being so cold and windy, the trees were always completely bare, except for the cedars, which were the only nice colors as everything else was a dull gray or light brown. Everywhere you would look was just cold and bleak and dead. But, the white snow covered almost all of that and overnight it was beautiful. You now saw the brilliance of the light reflecting off practically nothing but pure white snow. All of the “ugly” was gone.

 

No matter who we are or what we try to do, we are all ugly. Since all of us have sinned (Rom. 3:23), that sin has made us ugly. We not only look dirty and dead, we are dirty and dead. But, just like that snow covered all the dead trees and dead grass, Jesus has covered all our dirty sins with His shed blood on the cross. “Blessed is the one whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered.” Psalm 32:1. And unlike when that snow melted and the old dead grass was still there, Jesus has removed our sins from us, so we don’t ever have to see them again. “He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west.” Psalm 103:12. And why did He do that? Read the verse just before that one. “For His unfailing love toward those who fear Him is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth.” Psalm 103:11. It is all because of God’s love. His awesome love. His amazing grace. His undeserved, unmerited favor. “But – When God our Savior revealed His kindness and love, He saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit. He generously poured out the Spirit upon us through Jesus Christ our Savior.” Titus 3:4-6.

 

As long as I live, I’ll always remember that Christmas snow. As well as standing on Granny and Daddy John’s couch while looking out through the window behind it and watching the snow come down the night before. But for all eternity, I will remember my wonderful Savior, Jesus, who shed His precious blood to cover all my sin. And because of Him, I stand before my God dressed in white.

 

“’Come now, let’s settle this,’ says the Lord. ‘Though your sins are like scarlet, I will make them as white as snow. Thought they are red like crimson, I will make them as white as wool.’” Isaiah 1:18

 

Bro. Paul Reed

 

Tuesday, December 14, 2021

 

 



Turn On the Light

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Turn On the Light

 

I have many great memories of Christmas at my grandparents. Both sets lived in the same town in southern Oklahoma, so we were able to see and visit with all of them every year. We would alternate each year which house we would spend the night with on Christmas Eve. When we were at my mother’s parents, there was the family tradition of caroling on Christmas Eve. I loved this tradition. Being one of twenty grandchildren made for a large caravan of station wagons and singers. My aunt Johnnie was the church secretary, so she had the list of shut-ins from their church, as well as others that needed to be visited. We would pull up to a house, all of us cousins and aunts and uncles would unload from the vehicles and gather just out from the front door. One of us would knock and there was a brief pause, making sure someone was coming to the door, then we would begin singing. We usually sang at least three carols of two verses each, then we would wish them a Merry Christmas and load back up in the cars and head to the next house. As I recall, I don’t remember any of the houses we went to being right next to the other. We always had to drive a little from one house to the next. There was one particular house I always remembered well. Unlike all the others, when we stopped in front of this house there were no lights on. No lights outside and no lights inside. This man was not a shut-in, because I remembered seeing him at their church, and even playing the piano one time. We would gather around his door like the other houses. Someone would knock, but we would wait until he came out before singing. He was always so cheerful and happy that we had come. As he came out, he would say, “Let me turn a light on for you.” His porch light would come on and then we would begin to sing. The thing was, he didn’t need any lights because he was blind. He couldn’t see us but would turn a light on so we could see him.

 

I remember laughing when he would speak and turn his porch light on for us. It was awesome that he thought of us and knew that would help. I was always fascinated by this man. I often thought how different his life must be not being able to see. Yet, he had a house, lived there by himself, and was able to go and do as needed. And he had been able to do that for a while, as I remember him being older. Here was a man who couldn’t see other people, couldn’t see Christmas decorations or lights of any kind, yet he knew and worshipped Jesus. He couldn’t see the light with his eyes, but he knew the Light because someone had told him. He had been taught the true meaning of Christmas, the reason for the season. Even though he was impaired because of his lack of sight, as someone shared Jesus with him, he was able to see spiritually and understand his need for Christ. Someone loved him enough to know he needed Jesus, and he had to be told.

 

Who do you need to tell? There are many who can see with their eyes but still need to see with their hearts. They need to be told why we celebrate Christmas. They need to be told why Jesus was born. They need to be told what He has done for them. Jesus said in John 12:46, “I have come as a light to shine in this dark world, so that all who put their trust in Me will no longer remain in the dark.” We don’t want anyone to be blind to the gospel of Jesus. Let’s be sure we are sharing with them the Light that has come. “No one lights a lamp and then hides it or puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where its light can be seen by all who enter the house.” Luke 11:33

 

We always ended our caroling at my grandparents’ house, where we started. We went through the same routine; someone knocked as we all gathered by the door. Then, we would sing for Granny and Daddy John, the ones who started the family and continued the Christian family heritage by telling their daughters of the Light of the world that was born on that first Christmas. Then they told us. When we were done, we all went back into their house for hot chocolate and goodies to eat. I miss those times of caroling and spending time together with family. We are all spread out across the country now with many of us cousins now being the grandparents. The family tradition of caroling may not be still going, but through the grace and strength of Christ, the tradition and heritage of sharing our faith in Jesus is still going strong.

 

Bro. Paul Reed

 

Tuesday, December 7, 2021

 

 



God Can Forgive

God Can Forgive!

Dear Friends,

I was asked a few days ago by someone close to me who was hitting bottom, “Do you really believe that God can forgive anything”?  The short answer is, yes, I do.  But you don’t have to listen to what I think…  You can trust in what God’s Word tells us directly from Him!  When we feel guilty and desperate or are mortified by some of the things we’ve done, it’s natural to wonder if forgiveness is possible?

The conviction of sin can bring us to a place of feeling helpless and hopeless. Our shame tempts us to think that no one, much less God, could ever forgive us. So, we lose hope.  We wonder how we can go on. But here is the Good News; no one is beyond God’s forgiveness. No matter what we have done, we have not out-sinned God’s ability to forgive us.

The Bible tells us that all humans have sinned (Romans 3:23). Each of us is deserving of eternal separation from God (Romans 6:23). No matter the sin—rape, murder, terrorism, adultery, theft, pride, gossip, jealousy, lying, prostitution, on and on, etc.—we deserve to be punished. It’s an all-or-nothing scenario. God does not judge us on whether our “good” outweighs our “bad,” but on whether we will accept His way of salvation.

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God” (John 3:16–18).

God made the one and only way of forgiveness, not just for some sins but for all of it. There is no sin that God cannot forgive. No matter what we’ve done, God will forgive us if you come to Him in faith.  Now, for many this has become a sticking point.  Many have a hard time accepting the truth of the Bible and the exclusive claims that it presents.  That’s why it’s called faith.  It’s not a blind faith, without proofs and contrary to all evidence, but neither is it a reach out and touch it beyond all doubt’s faith either.  There is a point in every believer’s life that we have to stop and admit, “I don’t understand it all, I cannot find all the answers but I see and know what God has done in and around me and I commit to put my faith and trust in Him alone for my salvation and surrender to follow His Word and His guidance in the rest of my life.”  God won’t forgive us because we promise to do better next time or because we make amends or because we do good deeds. No, He will forgive us because sinless Jesus paid the penalty for sin on our behalf and we accept that gift with gratitude and faith (2 Corinthians 5:21).

The worst thing anyone can do, is to fake it.  Don’t do that!  Rather, open your heart and mind and allow God the opportunity to make Himself real to you.  This may take time but be patient, His timing is perfect and He desires that all people be reconciled to Him.  He gives us the right to shut Him out but His love is relentless and He will pursue us no matter where we go or what we do.  It’s ok to ask questions and have discussions and debates as long as we are open and respectfully seeking Truth.  Paul tells us to “work out your own salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12).  We must pray to Him, pour out our heart, our hurts, fears and anxieties…  We need to beg Him to convince us of His truth and then to strengthen our faith.  When we find that, we will have access to His power that can overcome any temptation this present kingdom of darkness throws at us!   

Now, God’s promise of protection does not guarantee that we will never know pain or loss, just consider our 2021!  Job’s story shows us that, although God is able to deliver us out of every physical calamity or trouble, it may not be His will to do so. Sometimes He uses trials to purify us. At these times, James says we should “count it pure joy” because, by allowing trials, God tests our faith to develop a deeper faith so that we persevere and grow to maturity and Christlikeness (James 1:2–3).  In other words, protecting us from trials is not always the best thing for us.

As well, God does not always shield us from the results of our own sins or the negative effects of the sins of others. Our world is fallen, and we will endure its hardships. Many believers endure persecution (2 Timothy 3:12). Of course, Jesus assured His disciples and us, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). The truth is that even when we cannot see it, in every situation, God remains in control, and our sufferings have a limit. God will not allow us to be tested beyond our ability to bear it (1 Corinthians 10:13).   This year has pushed me personally past the point where I thought I would break, but God knew better and I am stronger than I was. 

Ultimately, no matter what happens in this world, heaven is the believer’s home. We are spiritually safe and sound for eternity. “But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.” (Jeremiah 17:7-8).  This has become my verse(s) for this coming year.  I am intentionally applying it to my life and ministry.  Maybe you can hold on to it as well?  I know that as I draw near to God and trust His protection, I invite His work in my life.  When I do that, I know (I have faith) that He will accomplish His good purposes in my life (Romans 8:28–39).  That is the type of hope and peace that I long for you to experience long term.  It doesn’t rely on money or companions or material things but looks to the only One who is always faithful to forgive us when we fail.

Only by Grace!

Pastor Mike   



Family

“REED” This

 

Family

 

I love the holiday season. Thanksgiving is wonderful with all the delicious food that takes a few days to eat all the leftovers, but that’s not what makes it special. The Christmas season is wonderful with all the presents, parties, decorations, music, and delicious food, but that’s not what makes it special. New Year’s Eve is fun with the parties, fireworks, and staying up late to ring in the new year, but that’s not what makes it special. So, why do I love the holidays? The answer is – family. There are so many good things about the holidays, but the best thing with all of them is the time to spend with family. When I say, “I love the holidays,” I’m actually saying, “I love to spend time with my family!” Now, we may not be able to see all of our family during the holidays, but the ones we can see and spend that time with make it special. The activities and food may be good, but it’s the ones you share it with that brings the joy on those occasions. Just this past weekend I was able to spend time with my immediate family. We had some really good food and deserts that all of us enjoyed. We drove over to Jekyll Island to see all the beautiful and impressive Christmas lights on display. But far and above all that was the time the six of us were able to spend together. The conversations, the laughter, the memories, the stories, and just being together was overwhelming at times. Seeing the smiles on everyone’s faces as we sat around the table or living room brought such joy. Then, being able to take my grand-daughter outside and push her on the swing, watching the contented smile on her face as she sat and went back and forth was really special. Being able to worship together as a family and serve together with my sons as they helped me lead in worship is beyond description. What a blessing! What joy fills my heart even as I think and write about it! I am so grateful to God for the family He has blessed me with and know that it is truly a gift from Him.

 

I love how God designed, created, and established the family. From the very beginning, He brought Adam and Eve together and told them to have children (Gen. 1:28). They did (Gen. 4:1), and they were blessed with their children. As I write this, I know there is not always perfect harmony within a family. Even from the beginning, there was trouble, as with Cain and Abel (Gen. 4:8). But even through the struggles, challenges, personality conflicts, and difficulties, family is still family. There is still that connection that can never be broken. And in most families, there is love for one another. That love comes from the Father, who demonstrates His love for us in so many ways. But the greatest way was through His sending His Son to be our Savior. And as we receive the gift of salvation through His Son, Jesus, we become God’s child. We then are a part of His family, and that connection can never be broken (John 10:27-29). His love for us and His promises of everlasting life holds us forever in His hands. We will always be His child and will live forever in His house.

 

Jesus said, “There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am.” John 14:2-3

 

What a wonderful promise Jesus has given us. Until my room is ready, I need to be showing and sharing the love of Christ with my family. And I need to be doing the same with everyone I meet so that they know how to become a part of God’s family and Jesus can start working on their room. I love spending time with my family. And I love spending time with my church family. And I love spending time with God’s family. I pray you are able to have a great holiday season spending time with your family – earthly and heavenly.

 

Bro. Paul Reed

 

Tuesday, November 30, 2021

 

 



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